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Did your ex give you a solid reason for breaking up or did they use some old cliche like "It's not you it's me"?

Posted 1 year ago.

16 Comments

  • cody - 1 month ago

    Dated this girl for four months.. lives in my hometown. fell for her in the summer..did
    everything together..college of semester went by, everything going good, sent letters, skyped,saw eachother on the weekends(diff colleges).. then one day she tells me she still has feelings for her
    ex, then the next day she didnt..told me somedays she wanted a bf, and somedays she didnt...
    well..she dumped me a few days after xmas..said she just doesnt want a relationship right now...told me she just needs her space and time...worst part is.. i transfered colleges just to be closer to her cuz i knew the distance was hard for her... man the things guys do for girls... i sure did learn my lesson...but none the less... i hope she finds her way back to me.. what we had was something specical.. i wrote her songs..bought her flowers all the time.. surprised her at college a few times with balloons and flowers..got along with her family great.. we all know most girls need a rebound after a breakup..but i hope she realizes she is making a mistake...she told me i was the best guy shes ever been with..110x's better than all of her other bf's...and yet,,she dosent want me.. im struggling...but i sure am hoping one day she will find her way back into my arms...

  • yazz - 2 months ago

    I just went to the old appartment where my ex bf lives last nite..wanted to talk to him..and he wasn't answering the door. Dunno what to do, reasons for breaking up 3 months ago were a mix of actual problems within him and cliche, he wanted to be by himself, alone for a while...i met him when he just got out of a marriage ...and now it feels like he was lying to me since he said lately he is seeing someone else...and yes, I have the damn right to confront him about what happened to his feelings for me and confront him about him telling me all the time not to leave him, not to hurt him.wtf did he do that to me then? I haven't gotten an answer to alot of things between him and me until today . Worst thing is that I wanted to break up too before he made that decision and now after months of not being together and being asked out on dates from other guys I figured out that I have still feelings for him, a mix of love and run as fast as you can. I don't know what to do. He only lives like 20 min away in a different town and I dont want to be a stalker. Going over to his house is the only way to confront him. I cant even say if he didnt open the door on purpose or didnt count on me being there or thought it was the police or a neighbor or whatnot ringing the bell at nite. I dont have his number anymore and emailing on FB or yahoo is not an option. Maybe a letter? Dunno.

  • cortavius - 3 months ago

    my ex gf ok wan we be on the fone it dont be like she miss me and i sell love her but im in yo life i dont no wat to do to get her bak i need her she my love you my hart ............

  • Confused ,Depressed,and Angry - 4 months ago

    Me and my gf were in a really good relationship but the other day she broke up with me, the worst part was that she told me SHE DIDNT LOVE ME, so thats when I thought, what where all the kissing, hugging, and talking about personal life problems about? I mean seriously, I really loved her but......she ripped my heart in two.

  • Pissed off - 4 months ago

    We went out for 9 months. I go to dominican republic for two weeks before i left i get news shes pregnant with my kid.i comeback (verz pensive plane ride) and i get back and she has a new man and tells me its over im not same guy and all this and that...and that i tried to get with her sister who flirted with me i never did nothing with her. And she lost the baby. Now that rebound relationship is over the guy plays baseball in oklahoma and thats out of the way. Shes single and i cant stop thinking about her and i know for a fact she isnt over me.

  • big tom - 4 months ago

    my ex is going out with someone that is a control freak and now she is accusing me of things i never did and never would do so what do i do

  • Eric - 4 months ago

    After thirty years of marriage and six children she says she doesn't love me anymore and left out of the blue. I had no clue that there was a problem.

  • Kbby - 4 months ago

    My bf and I have been together a total of 11 months about 6 months in to our relationship he went to jail for issues that happened before I had met him. He was gone for 7 months during this time we were not together and still I stayed faithful to him. When he got out he came back home to me and we were together for 5 months just the other day I was upset about something and he completely flipped out over it and told me to pack my things and leave I gave it 24 hours before I actually did I asked him if that is what he really wanted he said yes so I started packing as I was packing he got angry and emotional I couldn't understand why. I had him drive me to my mothers house and on the way he began to cry. I asked him why he was crying I was the one being kicked to the curb I was doing exactly what he wanted and he shocked me by saying, he was only seeing if I would really leave, he didn't want me to go. I said so lets just go home he said no you things are packed and youre on your way to your moms it to late. We have been talking and he's very hot n cold with me one minute he wants me the next he doesn't he says he loves me and cares for me but doesn't know what he wants he has stopped by to see me and said he's happy that he did but I'm not sure what to think. Part of his reasoning for our break up is that he never resieved a post card from me while he was in jail, when honestly I wrote to him every day but he doesn't know weather to believe me or not he also said I'm bitchy and bossy we broke up once before over my attitude and I've been correcting it ever since.. What do I do?

  • TBug - 4 months ago

    My ex boyfriend said it got boring, dumped me through text, then started texting my ex bff whom looks like me and back stabs me alot. Jeez

  • bonita - 5 months ago

    IF DA GUY DOSENT DESERVE U FUCK HIM TRY TO GET OVER HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!TRUST ME I KNOW IT HURTS..........I LEFT A HAPPY RELASHIONSHIP WITH 3 KISZ ITZ NOT EASY

  • Theresa - 5 months ago

    I have been with my boyfriend twenty yrs. he is 9 yrs. younger then me. My children were 2 and 10 yrs. old at the time that we met. They were in a tragic accident 8 yrs. ago and died. We have been through alot together but after there death I turned to drinking and drugs for approx. 3 yrs. and put him through hell, because these were just as much his kids. He said he had forgave me. then 2 months ago I found him talking with a women he had gone to school with and said when he was 21 he was in love with her too. But chose me. I dont know what too believe because of what we had been through. I cannot believe he lost all feelings for me. I miss him and love him very much. We had shared and been through alot together. Help me! I want him back. I am 50 and he is 41. He told my kids before they died that he would always take care me. Now I feel so alone. That is alot of yrs to throw away.

  • Needy - 5 months ago

    I have been in no contact period for nearly 6 months.Till now no response.I am very confused like my bf also trying to be with me in that no contact period.And if we both are doing the same and no result has come yet .Wat shall i do .I am a conservative indian girl .My parents are arranging marriage for me.Kindly help me.

  • Heart broken - 5 months ago

    My ex and i dated for 5 months & then after we broke up he went out with ma friend & ive been heartbroken ever since, & even thou ive been with other people i cant get ovet him & i wish i could but i cant. & after readibg your article i still dunno what to do

  • neddy - 6 months ago

    my ex girlfrnd made up some story that am a player but its not true we were dating for 2 years.just after a week she went after my cousin but i need her back in my life, shes every thing in my life i cant seem to get her back.she has every a guy needs in a girl am willing to give up my family just to be with her but now thanks to you i know what to do

  • needy - 6 months ago

    my ex girlfrnd made up some story that am a player but its not true we were dating for 2 years.just after a week she went after my cousin but i need her back in my life, shes every thing in my life i cant seem to get her back.she has every a guy needs in a girl am willing to give up my family just to be with her but now thanks to you i know what to do

  • N.R.S - 7 months ago

    My ex just said being in a relationship was all confusing, but 3 hours later, he asked my friend out!! And didn't tell me. NOT ONE THING. So far, part of me is saying, 'I love you! PLEASE COME BACK!' but the other part of me is saying, 'Just get lost, sore loser.' Thanks to your article, I think I have an idea...

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