Another way to look at it is to consider Bruce's posture instead of Selena's. To me, he doesn't look like he's in charge as much like he just arrived on the scene. The way he's leaning looks like he's trying to see what Salena's doing (a good idea, from my experience), not forcing her to do it.
I'm by no means saying that was the intention, but it is a possible interpretation of the scene.
Another way to look at it is to consider Bruce's posture instead of Selena's. To me, he doesn't look like he's in charge as much like he just arrived on the scene. The way he's leaning looks like he's trying to see what Salena's doing (a good idea, from my experience), not forcing her to do it.
I'm by no means saying that was the intention, but it is a possible interpretation of the scene.