What you don't underdtand is that the 'one' man the woman sticks to means the world to her and even the thought of sharing him tears her apart if there is love in between them both.
You with confidence tell that this IS what a woman want to have! Then why the verses like 'you shall have all you desire for' are there when everything is set in order for women?
Why can't she have the open opportunities to wish for anything and everything? Why can't she and her husband live together without having to do anything with hoor because they wished for this on earth?
Why every adjustment with women?
And don't tell the women that they strive less! Please! Just because four deeds are mentioned in a hadith, you people speak of women as if they do nothing on earth.
And at the end, one question remains unanswered. Why cant it be only me and my husband if we both want the same and pray for it?
samina alam - 11 years ago
Jazak'Allah may Allah reward you , before i read this i was reading on the rewards of jannah and it all seemed to be about the hoor for me which i started to feel really upset and that there was nothing for men. But after reading this i feel ashamed may Allah forgive me for doubting Him.. I should not pounder on what is my reward instead i should have trust in Allah and strive to please him as i have been put here to do. Thankyou so muvh for this article, you have really opened my eyes :)
What you don't underdtand is that the 'one' man the woman sticks to means the world to her and even the thought of sharing him tears her apart if there is love in between them both.
You with confidence tell that this IS what a woman want to have! Then why the verses like 'you shall have all you desire for' are there when everything is set in order for women?
Why can't she have the open opportunities to wish for anything and everything? Why can't she and her husband live together without having to do anything with hoor because they wished for this on earth?
Why every adjustment with women?
And don't tell the women that they strive less! Please! Just because four deeds are mentioned in a hadith, you people speak of women as if they do nothing on earth.
And at the end, one question remains unanswered. Why cant it be only me and my husband if we both want the same and pray for it?
Jazak'Allah may Allah reward you , before i read this i was reading on the rewards of jannah and it all seemed to be about the hoor for me which i started to feel really upset and that there was nothing for men. But after reading this i feel ashamed may Allah forgive me for doubting Him.. I should not pounder on what is my reward instead i should have trust in Allah and strive to please him as i have been put here to do. Thankyou so muvh for this article, you have really opened my eyes :)