I think she did the right thing by giving her daughter to her mom because Farrah is a POS mom!
andrea - 9 years ago
She did the right thing. Its better for her to educate herself and get her free time because she is going to regret it if she don't. It isn't her fault her boyfriend dies and she was left to raise the baby herself. Life happens and her mom is a good grandma. More of this country should have family like that that they can count on in hard times. There would be more love to go around in place of all the hatered.
Jordan - 12 years ago
I think she made a great choice. She is a single teenage mother planning to live on her own. She's got to find a start on the future and education is the best way to do it. After she's through with that, shell have the money she needs for her and Sophia. It'll be hard for her but worth it in the end.
Rida - 12 years ago
I think she should have taken her daughter with her. I am 21 years old with twins. I brought them with me when I moved away from my hometown. I am still able to live my life the way I want to and still be the best mother. She should go back to Iwoa get her baby and go back to Florida. She can still go to school because that school she attends has a daycare.
Alia - 12 years ago
I think she did what she had to do! I'm a 24 old mother! I have 6 kids and own a company! I would not of left my kid but everyone is different. She is not a bad person she is just trying to do her.
Nikita - 12 years ago
i think she did make the wrong decision it is about sophia now not bout her anymore she cant think oh I wanna go here n there n just leave sophia with her parents, if she wants to go to skool n get a better future for them she needs to think that sophia needs to go with her so shes gonna have to think of something different.,she has always been.selfish she just wanted to go out live on her own with her new boob job n try to find some guys n live the teenage life, she just makes out that shes tryin to do the best n she is but she wants to go out as wel just doesnt wanna say it but I cant believe she done that left sophia thats just wrong.
I think Farrah made the right decision. Farrah has been on an emotional roller coaster since the moment she found out she was pregnant. Between cutting ties with Derek, Trusting her friends to keep a secret, losing all her friends, Derek's tragic death, the struggle of being a single mother, the battle with her parents, and keeping up with school while being a mother to Sophia. Although,I do believe a mother shall never leave their child, and that the child she always be first but sometimes you need to get yourself together because you can't raise a child if your not able to take care of yourself first. In order for Farrah to raise Sophia to the best of her ability she needs to make new friends, be herself, & deal with the death of Derek. Everyone completely forgets that she was in love with Derek, and although they were over before Sophia was born that doesn't mean she was completely over him.
mommy@17 - 13 years ago
I think she made the wrong decision. It was selfish of her.
I got pregnant at 16 and had my beautiful baby boy at 17. I'm 18 now, he's 15 months) Its been hard yes. I've had to take him to high school with me (HIGH SCHOOL!), but I wanted a better education for my son. Then when I had to move across state, I still took him with me! I couldn't ever leave my baby somewhere that far away from me! How would you be able to get to your child if they got hurt?!
And as far as her FREEDOM?! You left that at the front door when you decided to spread your legs!!
erin - 13 years ago
I think that Farrah did the right thing. I am glad she finally realized that she needs time to become whole again after losing Sophia's dad. It is better that family take care of Sophia than for her to be in daycare all the time. Farrah is doing things this way while Sophia is young. This will better their future and they will be together again. It is hard to leave a child behind. It is also better than strangers raising her while Farrah finishes her education and gets her career started. I say 2 thumbs up for Farrah putting her daughters needs before her own feelings. She could have taken her but what good what that have done Sophia.
pue - 13 years ago
sophia is such a good baby farrah is a selfish bitch and needs to get her proties together
J.F. - 13 years ago
she made the choice to make a Sophia, carry a Sophia for term, keep Sophia after birth to raise - so she made the choice of having Sophia for life. when you make that choice you live with it and you don't back out. Old saying says a child doesn't choose their parent however a parent chooses their child - by god if you chooses the child keep and cherish the child. all i ever here on teen mom from all of them is me, me, me - well guess what girls - have a baby it is no longer you, you, you - it is all about the baby.that is the problem with young girls nowadays they think they should have the same amount of freedom as they did before their babies were conceived. there are choices you can make before you make a child and have a child. think before you act cause there is a innocent child at stake. i have 4 kids and i do know what i'm saying. i had my first at 16 and chose the growup and take care of my children and I made all decissions to envolve my children and myself as well as our safety.
Lisa Roemer - 13 years ago
She,has a need to get away,She was young having a baby,lost the father of her baby then had to go through morning being preg is not easy for anyone ,but at 16 even 17 ts hard to go through it.Then his mom denied his child all with in two years, and if you havent been through it dont judge,if you have that might have been the right thing for you.It not like it was a easy thing for her to do,she has family to help her out,I have 2 kids I would of asked them to leave there child with me to make it easy from them to go to school .She is not the only mom that has ever done it,So you are going to down grade all the mom's that have ever left a child to better there life ,you should be a shame of your self ,I thing she is doing the right thing,You go Farrah,and good luck.
Jessica - 13 years ago
I think Farrah made a huge mistake!!! Its not about her anymore when she chose the life of her daughter. I'm a mom and decided to wait to have children till i was done doing what i wanted to do. Farrah chose the have her and keep her. She shouldnt be so selfish right now with a small child. I understand you shouldnt keep your life but to move so far away and leave her daughter for a college life well....Also i'm a 30 year old mom going back to school with three children. You make your sacrifices for your children and a better life. I'm doing that now cause its a horrible economy. So my point is, Farrah didnt have to move away from her parents, who help out tremendously, she wanted to move to have a different life than the old boring one she had. Maybe if her snobby attitude will disinergrate, she might actually have friends who like her for who she is and not the bitch she acts like all the time! She just always has a chip on her shoulder! But she obviously could have gone to school and take care of her daughter like 90% of parents do!!!!!!
NIKEA - 13 years ago
I BELIEVE SHE DID THE RIGHT THING. FARRAH IS TRYING TO GET HER LIFE TOGETHER FOR HER AND HER DAUGHTER SOPHIA. DON'T FEEL BAD AT ALL YOU GET YOURSELF TOGETHER SO THAT SOPHIA CAN HAVE A BEAUTIFUL AND SUCCESSFUL FUTURE.
Amanda - 13 years ago
I was left with the same option when I was 19 and faced with school or motherhood. I choose to move across the country with my son to attend school. Financially, it has been the most turmoultous thing I've ever done. BUT I'm am the most constant thing in my son's life. I am going to school to better our future. I could have gotten an admin job making a decent $30-40k tops a year. But I went to college, got my Bachelors to get my Masters and will be a Nurse Practitioner. My son has been by my side the whole way.... just my son. No father, no child support, no family.... just lots of student loans and my son. Best decision I have ever made. If I can help it, my son will never know what it's like to not have his mother. It was a selfish decision on her part to separate from her daughter. Single mothers go to college with their children EVERY DAY.
Christina Noonan - 13 years ago
Thank the good lord above Farrah anh Sophia have her parents to help. Farrah isnt running off to "Freedom"! She is simply trying to better herself for her future and her daughters.It is hard out there and kuddos to Farrah for doing this now. As children get older and have more needs it becomes almost impossible to better yourself. To all those people being judgemental, judge not lest ye be judged! Read the bible people. God bless Farrah as nd Sophia.
MomToo - 13 years ago
I think she made the best choice for everyone involved. Either way, Sophia would suffer A) she misses her mom or B) she grows up in a world where her mother is struggling to provide for her basic needs, forget ever having a college education or a real home to grow up in. Of the two, missing mom for a couple of years is the best in the long run for her life as a whole. Going to school without having a child or the burden of bills and rent is difficult in of itself. I couldnt imagine adding all of those other responsibilities into the mix. It seems very fairy-tale and fantasy like to think that they should stay together just because they are mother and daughter. Life is not that simple, and you must not be very experienced if you think it is. Not to mention, its beyond hard to be a loving and patient mother when you are constantly stressed. Child rearing is not the fantasy that society would like to believe. Now Sophia is in an environment where her grandparents are wealthy, can provide for her, and have all the time in the world to pay attention and love her with endless patience. I dont know about y'all, but I LOVED hanging out with my grandparents compared to my parents. Not to mention that her grandparents are obviously older, and these years spent with Sophia are going to be such a gift for both grandchild and grandparents. The world is a rough and tough place that will chew you up and spit you out if you dont have the tools to survive in it. It may be a rough around the edges deal now for Sophia, but Ferrah's choice has created a bright future.
Yaki - 13 years ago
I became a mother at the age of 16, I'm 20 now wiht a 3 year old daughter and yes it got hard a times and I want to go to college but I will never ever leave my daughter to go get some FREEDOM or to go to some school. She could've done that in Iowa, anyways I think she a selfish b&%$#. I think she made the wrong decision.
sara - 13 years ago
YOU PEOPLE SERRIOUSLY NEED TO STOP YOUR SO EMAN WHAT DID FARRAH DO WHEN YOU BECOME A FUCKING MOTHER I THINK YOU CAN TELL HER WHAT TO DO!!
Erika - 13 years ago
She has always been a shallow selfish child herself so what can we expect of her as a mother. I became a widow at 24 and was left with a 2 year old baby! I moved away shortly after and my child came with me! Shame one her
nina - 13 years ago
She did the right thing.. you can't just belie only one article you have to read many of them. On her interview with another magazine she left Sophia with her grandparents just so she could get settled. Sophia stayed with them for about 2 weeks nd then farrah came back nd got Sophia. She did an interview with OK magazine(I think) ... so as for u guys who bad mouthed all these girls.. unless you had a baby at 16 then don't say nothing nd don't judge.. As for Farrah and Sophia they are happy in Florida from the interview Farrah did with the magazine.. once again I said DO YOUR DAMN RESEARCH! and if u want information watch the damn show...
TeenMom1 - 13 years ago
I think Farrah made the worst decision possible. She left without her baby and without her dignity. That baby deserves her mother, and Farrah made the decision to keep the baby --therefore she should be doing just that!! Why else did she let that poor Sophia into the unfit family than to raise her differently than she herself was raised? Why didn't she just give that little angel up for adoption to a family who could really be what she needs!!!?? Poor Sophia missing her mommy.. makes me sick. Seriously I think the only people on this show who were fit to be parents were Tyler and Catelynn - and because their families weren't rich enough to take care of their grandkid while their kids finished school-- the baby was given up so she could have a better life, and maybe Maci--because she has really stepped up in place of that useless blob Ryan!
Me - 13 years ago
She made a horrible decision. Who in their right mind can leave their child to go have "freedom". She has always been selfish! That poor child!
June - 13 years ago
I think Farrah should have stayed and gone to school in Iowa. I know her mom and dad drive her crazy but she needs to move from right under their nose. She should go to school in Iowa and move away but not too far from her parents so they could help with the care of Sophia while she goes to school and works part time . If she has enough money to move to Florida then she has enough money to get her a place and even pay for day care if needed, which i think would be good for Sophia so she could interact with other kids and learn to get along with others. I think it is selfish of Farrah to move and give up Sophia. I think she just wants her freedom.When that baby was born she gave up her freedom and has responsibility of taking care and raising Sophia. She should have thought about her freedom before she got careless and got pregnant. Dont get me wrong. I think Farrah loves Sophia but she is being irresponsible in her thinking rationally. She has great parents that would do anything for her, but that is where they are inableing her. Her mom wants to control Farrah and she needs to butt out. Farrah needs to grow up and needs to learn what it is to raise Sophia on her own. Just my thoughts i just dont think she made the right decision.I picked the one that said leave her with her mom because the only other one was to take sophia with her and there wasnt one for her not to leave town.....
June - 13 years ago
I think Farrah should have stayed and gone to school in Iowa. I know her mom and dad drive her crazy but she needs to move from right under their nose. She should go to school in Iowa and move away but not too far from her parents so they could help with the care of Sophia while she goes to school and works part time . If she has enough money to move to Florida then she has enough money to get her a place and even pay for day care if needed, which i think would be good for Sophia so she could interact with other kids and learn to get along with others. I think it is selfish of Farrah to move and give up Sophia. I think she just wants her freedom.When that baby was born she gave up her freedom and has responsibility of taking care and raising Sophia. She should have thought about her freedom before she got careless and got pregnant. Dont get me wrong. I think Farrah loves Sophia but she is being irresponsible in her thinking rationally. She has great parents that would do anything for her, but that is where they are inableing her. Her mom wants to control Farrah and she needs to butt out. Farrah needs to grow up and needs to learn what it is to raise Sophia on her own. Just my thoughts i just dont think she made the right decision.I picked the one that said leave her with her mom because the only other one was to take sophia with her and there wasnt one for her not to leave town.....
Maddie's Mum - 13 years ago
i think she did make the right choice.. her parents just want whats best for them both.. if she had taken Sophia with her to FLA and something happened its not like she'd be close to home where her parents could take care of Sophia or babysit for her.. she'd have NO family or people she could trust down there with her... they just want to her get her self in a stable place and get settled before Sophia goes down with her... and of course her parents don't want her being a single parent hold her back from a career that she wants which would ultimately improve hers and Sophia's life greatly... so why not take the chance down in FLA, see if things will work out while Sophia is safe and taken care of... Kudos Farrah!!
I think she did the right thing by giving her daughter to her mom because Farrah is a POS mom!
She did the right thing. Its better for her to educate herself and get her free time because she is going to regret it if she don't. It isn't her fault her boyfriend dies and she was left to raise the baby herself. Life happens and her mom is a good grandma. More of this country should have family like that that they can count on in hard times. There would be more love to go around in place of all the hatered.
I think she made a great choice. She is a single teenage mother planning to live on her own. She's got to find a start on the future and education is the best way to do it. After she's through with that, shell have the money she needs for her and Sophia. It'll be hard for her but worth it in the end.
I think she should have taken her daughter with her. I am 21 years old with twins. I brought them with me when I moved away from my hometown. I am still able to live my life the way I want to and still be the best mother. She should go back to Iwoa get her baby and go back to Florida. She can still go to school because that school she attends has a daycare.
I think she did what she had to do! I'm a 24 old mother! I have 6 kids and own a company! I would not of left my kid but everyone is different. She is not a bad person she is just trying to do her.
i think she did make the wrong decision it is about sophia now not bout her anymore she cant think oh I wanna go here n there n just leave sophia with her parents, if she wants to go to skool n get a better future for them she needs to think that sophia needs to go with her so shes gonna have to think of something different.,she has always been.selfish she just wanted to go out live on her own with her new boob job n try to find some guys n live the teenage life, she just makes out that shes tryin to do the best n she is but she wants to go out as wel just doesnt wanna say it but I cant believe she done that left sophia thats just wrong.
Honestly I feel like farrah is selfish.
I think Farrah made the right decision. Farrah has been on an emotional roller coaster since the moment she found out she was pregnant. Between cutting ties with Derek, Trusting her friends to keep a secret, losing all her friends, Derek's tragic death, the struggle of being a single mother, the battle with her parents, and keeping up with school while being a mother to Sophia. Although,I do believe a mother shall never leave their child, and that the child she always be first but sometimes you need to get yourself together because you can't raise a child if your not able to take care of yourself first. In order for Farrah to raise Sophia to the best of her ability she needs to make new friends, be herself, & deal with the death of Derek. Everyone completely forgets that she was in love with Derek, and although they were over before Sophia was born that doesn't mean she was completely over him.
I think she made the wrong decision. It was selfish of her.
I got pregnant at 16 and had my beautiful baby boy at 17. I'm 18 now, he's 15 months) Its been hard yes. I've had to take him to high school with me (HIGH SCHOOL!), but I wanted a better education for my son. Then when I had to move across state, I still took him with me! I couldn't ever leave my baby somewhere that far away from me! How would you be able to get to your child if they got hurt?!
And as far as her FREEDOM?! You left that at the front door when you decided to spread your legs!!
I think that Farrah did the right thing. I am glad she finally realized that she needs time to become whole again after losing Sophia's dad. It is better that family take care of Sophia than for her to be in daycare all the time. Farrah is doing things this way while Sophia is young. This will better their future and they will be together again. It is hard to leave a child behind. It is also better than strangers raising her while Farrah finishes her education and gets her career started. I say 2 thumbs up for Farrah putting her daughters needs before her own feelings. She could have taken her but what good what that have done Sophia.
sophia is such a good baby farrah is a selfish bitch and needs to get her proties together
she made the choice to make a Sophia, carry a Sophia for term, keep Sophia after birth to raise - so she made the choice of having Sophia for life. when you make that choice you live with it and you don't back out. Old saying says a child doesn't choose their parent however a parent chooses their child - by god if you chooses the child keep and cherish the child. all i ever here on teen mom from all of them is me, me, me - well guess what girls - have a baby it is no longer you, you, you - it is all about the baby.that is the problem with young girls nowadays they think they should have the same amount of freedom as they did before their babies were conceived. there are choices you can make before you make a child and have a child. think before you act cause there is a innocent child at stake. i have 4 kids and i do know what i'm saying. i had my first at 16 and chose the growup and take care of my children and I made all decissions to envolve my children and myself as well as our safety.
She,has a need to get away,She was young having a baby,lost the father of her baby then had to go through morning being preg is not easy for anyone ,but at 16 even 17 ts hard to go through it.Then his mom denied his child all with in two years, and if you havent been through it dont judge,if you have that might have been the right thing for you.It not like it was a easy thing for her to do,she has family to help her out,I have 2 kids I would of asked them to leave there child with me to make it easy from them to go to school .She is not the only mom that has ever done it,So you are going to down grade all the mom's that have ever left a child to better there life ,you should be a shame of your self ,I thing she is doing the right thing,You go Farrah,and good luck.
I think Farrah made a huge mistake!!! Its not about her anymore when she chose the life of her daughter. I'm a mom and decided to wait to have children till i was done doing what i wanted to do. Farrah chose the have her and keep her. She shouldnt be so selfish right now with a small child. I understand you shouldnt keep your life but to move so far away and leave her daughter for a college life well....Also i'm a 30 year old mom going back to school with three children. You make your sacrifices for your children and a better life. I'm doing that now cause its a horrible economy. So my point is, Farrah didnt have to move away from her parents, who help out tremendously, she wanted to move to have a different life than the old boring one she had. Maybe if her snobby attitude will disinergrate, she might actually have friends who like her for who she is and not the bitch she acts like all the time! She just always has a chip on her shoulder! But she obviously could have gone to school and take care of her daughter like 90% of parents do!!!!!!
I BELIEVE SHE DID THE RIGHT THING. FARRAH IS TRYING TO GET HER LIFE TOGETHER FOR HER AND HER DAUGHTER SOPHIA. DON'T FEEL BAD AT ALL YOU GET YOURSELF TOGETHER SO THAT SOPHIA CAN HAVE A BEAUTIFUL AND SUCCESSFUL FUTURE.
I was left with the same option when I was 19 and faced with school or motherhood. I choose to move across the country with my son to attend school. Financially, it has been the most turmoultous thing I've ever done. BUT I'm am the most constant thing in my son's life. I am going to school to better our future. I could have gotten an admin job making a decent $30-40k tops a year. But I went to college, got my Bachelors to get my Masters and will be a Nurse Practitioner. My son has been by my side the whole way.... just my son. No father, no child support, no family.... just lots of student loans and my son. Best decision I have ever made. If I can help it, my son will never know what it's like to not have his mother. It was a selfish decision on her part to separate from her daughter. Single mothers go to college with their children EVERY DAY.
Thank the good lord above Farrah anh Sophia have her parents to help. Farrah isnt running off to "Freedom"! She is simply trying to better herself for her future and her daughters.It is hard out there and kuddos to Farrah for doing this now. As children get older and have more needs it becomes almost impossible to better yourself. To all those people being judgemental, judge not lest ye be judged! Read the bible people. God bless Farrah as nd Sophia.
I think she made the best choice for everyone involved. Either way, Sophia would suffer A) she misses her mom or B) she grows up in a world where her mother is struggling to provide for her basic needs, forget ever having a college education or a real home to grow up in. Of the two, missing mom for a couple of years is the best in the long run for her life as a whole. Going to school without having a child or the burden of bills and rent is difficult in of itself. I couldnt imagine adding all of those other responsibilities into the mix. It seems very fairy-tale and fantasy like to think that they should stay together just because they are mother and daughter. Life is not that simple, and you must not be very experienced if you think it is. Not to mention, its beyond hard to be a loving and patient mother when you are constantly stressed. Child rearing is not the fantasy that society would like to believe. Now Sophia is in an environment where her grandparents are wealthy, can provide for her, and have all the time in the world to pay attention and love her with endless patience. I dont know about y'all, but I LOVED hanging out with my grandparents compared to my parents. Not to mention that her grandparents are obviously older, and these years spent with Sophia are going to be such a gift for both grandchild and grandparents. The world is a rough and tough place that will chew you up and spit you out if you dont have the tools to survive in it. It may be a rough around the edges deal now for Sophia, but Ferrah's choice has created a bright future.
I became a mother at the age of 16, I'm 20 now wiht a 3 year old daughter and yes it got hard a times and I want to go to college but I will never ever leave my daughter to go get some FREEDOM or to go to some school. She could've done that in Iowa, anyways I think she a selfish b&%$#. I think she made the wrong decision.
YOU PEOPLE SERRIOUSLY NEED TO STOP YOUR SO EMAN WHAT DID FARRAH DO WHEN YOU BECOME A FUCKING MOTHER I THINK YOU CAN TELL HER WHAT TO DO!!
She has always been a shallow selfish child herself so what can we expect of her as a mother. I became a widow at 24 and was left with a 2 year old baby! I moved away shortly after and my child came with me! Shame one her
She did the right thing.. you can't just belie only one article you have to read many of them. On her interview with another magazine she left Sophia with her grandparents just so she could get settled. Sophia stayed with them for about 2 weeks nd then farrah came back nd got Sophia. She did an interview with OK magazine(I think) ... so as for u guys who bad mouthed all these girls.. unless you had a baby at 16 then don't say nothing nd don't judge.. As for Farrah and Sophia they are happy in Florida from the interview Farrah did with the magazine.. once again I said DO YOUR DAMN RESEARCH! and if u want information watch the damn show...
I think Farrah made the worst decision possible. She left without her baby and without her dignity. That baby deserves her mother, and Farrah made the decision to keep the baby --therefore she should be doing just that!! Why else did she let that poor Sophia into the unfit family than to raise her differently than she herself was raised? Why didn't she just give that little angel up for adoption to a family who could really be what she needs!!!?? Poor Sophia missing her mommy.. makes me sick. Seriously I think the only people on this show who were fit to be parents were Tyler and Catelynn - and because their families weren't rich enough to take care of their grandkid while their kids finished school-- the baby was given up so she could have a better life, and maybe Maci--because she has really stepped up in place of that useless blob Ryan!
She made a horrible decision. Who in their right mind can leave their child to go have "freedom". She has always been selfish! That poor child!
I think Farrah should have stayed and gone to school in Iowa. I know her mom and dad drive her crazy but she needs to move from right under their nose. She should go to school in Iowa and move away but not too far from her parents so they could help with the care of Sophia while she goes to school and works part time . If she has enough money to move to Florida then she has enough money to get her a place and even pay for day care if needed, which i think would be good for Sophia so she could interact with other kids and learn to get along with others. I think it is selfish of Farrah to move and give up Sophia. I think she just wants her freedom.When that baby was born she gave up her freedom and has responsibility of taking care and raising Sophia. She should have thought about her freedom before she got careless and got pregnant. Dont get me wrong. I think Farrah loves Sophia but she is being irresponsible in her thinking rationally. She has great parents that would do anything for her, but that is where they are inableing her. Her mom wants to control Farrah and she needs to butt out. Farrah needs to grow up and needs to learn what it is to raise Sophia on her own. Just my thoughts i just dont think she made the right decision.I picked the one that said leave her with her mom because the only other one was to take sophia with her and there wasnt one for her not to leave town.....
I think Farrah should have stayed and gone to school in Iowa. I know her mom and dad drive her crazy but she needs to move from right under their nose. She should go to school in Iowa and move away but not too far from her parents so they could help with the care of Sophia while she goes to school and works part time . If she has enough money to move to Florida then she has enough money to get her a place and even pay for day care if needed, which i think would be good for Sophia so she could interact with other kids and learn to get along with others. I think it is selfish of Farrah to move and give up Sophia. I think she just wants her freedom.When that baby was born she gave up her freedom and has responsibility of taking care and raising Sophia. She should have thought about her freedom before she got careless and got pregnant. Dont get me wrong. I think Farrah loves Sophia but she is being irresponsible in her thinking rationally. She has great parents that would do anything for her, but that is where they are inableing her. Her mom wants to control Farrah and she needs to butt out. Farrah needs to grow up and needs to learn what it is to raise Sophia on her own. Just my thoughts i just dont think she made the right decision.I picked the one that said leave her with her mom because the only other one was to take sophia with her and there wasnt one for her not to leave town.....
i think she did make the right choice.. her parents just want whats best for them both.. if she had taken Sophia with her to FLA and something happened its not like she'd be close to home where her parents could take care of Sophia or babysit for her.. she'd have NO family or people she could trust down there with her... they just want to her get her self in a stable place and get settled before Sophia goes down with her... and of course her parents don't want her being a single parent hold her back from a career that she wants which would ultimately improve hers and Sophia's life greatly... so why not take the chance down in FLA, see if things will work out while Sophia is safe and taken care of... Kudos Farrah!!