If these kids have been recruited by toxic people and trained by them for a lengthy amount of time then they most probably won't be 'reformable'. What's more they will be part of a network and those people will try to protect them if they get into trouble with the law. Most of the harassing is done in a more indirect fashion but it is not uncommon for children that are toxic to become bullies because there is a great deal of people who believe "they are just kids" and will "grow out of it".
Another problem is that while in some cases the parents themselves are toxic and will defend their children's bad behavior, this is not always the case. If a mother is stressed then her children become adversely affected and it is not apparent. Once affected they are predisposed to becoming toxic. However they cannot and do not become toxic simply by their predisposition nor by themselves. They are recruited and aggressively trained by a toxic mob and other toxic children are often used in this training.
The problem of stress means the mother is not able to be relaxed and be herself and thus be able to properly function as a parent. When this happens the bond between her and her child/ children is weakened. The bond is not physical, nor even emotional as many psychologists and psychiatrists claim, but mental. If she is preoccupied, which is always the case in stress, then she is not present mentally with her children. The child feels this as coldness and distance in the relationship and begins to crave attention. They feel insecurity at first and then later also anger as they become frustrated because they can't fix the problem (the connectivity with their mother). Both fear and anger means high energy production in the body. A child will become hyperactive to try and burn off some of this energy . They feel a strong need to do this as otherwise they would have a heat condition in their body. A big problem is that ESP, which is very strong in close relationships and most particularly between mother and child, is not recognized by the medical establishment.
The best remedy is for the mother who is stressed to set herself up a routine of recollecting her child mentally and upholding the ideas of love and protectiveness and positive thoughts that she would ordinarily do naturally, without even thinking about it, if she was not stressed. The child will pick up on the thoughts and the mental bond is restored. It won't happen immediately but with some effort the situation can be salvaged.
There are two posts on my blog that deal with toxicity and how you can see the danger signs. see here: http://kyrani99.wordpress.com/2012/01/21/the-toxic-people-and-their-networks-who-are-they/
and here: http://kyrani99.wordpress.com/2012/01/26/toxic-people-and-their-networks-who-are-they-part-2/
Kyrani Eade
If these kids have been recruited by toxic people and trained by them for a lengthy amount of time then they most probably won't be 'reformable'. What's more they will be part of a network and those people will try to protect them if they get into trouble with the law. Most of the harassing is done in a more indirect fashion but it is not uncommon for children that are toxic to become bullies because there is a great deal of people who believe "they are just kids" and will "grow out of it".
Another problem is that while in some cases the parents themselves are toxic and will defend their children's bad behavior, this is not always the case. If a mother is stressed then her children become adversely affected and it is not apparent. Once affected they are predisposed to becoming toxic. However they cannot and do not become toxic simply by their predisposition nor by themselves. They are recruited and aggressively trained by a toxic mob and other toxic children are often used in this training.
The problem of stress means the mother is not able to be relaxed and be herself and thus be able to properly function as a parent. When this happens the bond between her and her child/ children is weakened. The bond is not physical, nor even emotional as many psychologists and psychiatrists claim, but mental. If she is preoccupied, which is always the case in stress, then she is not present mentally with her children. The child feels this as coldness and distance in the relationship and begins to crave attention. They feel insecurity at first and then later also anger as they become frustrated because they can't fix the problem (the connectivity with their mother). Both fear and anger means high energy production in the body. A child will become hyperactive to try and burn off some of this energy . They feel a strong need to do this as otherwise they would have a heat condition in their body. A big problem is that ESP, which is very strong in close relationships and most particularly between mother and child, is not recognized by the medical establishment.
The best remedy is for the mother who is stressed to set herself up a routine of recollecting her child mentally and upholding the ideas of love and protectiveness and positive thoughts that she would ordinarily do naturally, without even thinking about it, if she was not stressed. The child will pick up on the thoughts and the mental bond is restored. It won't happen immediately but with some effort the situation can be salvaged.
There are two posts on my blog that deal with toxicity and how you can see the danger signs. see here: http://kyrani99.wordpress.com/2012/01/21/the-toxic-people-and-their-networks-who-are-they/
and here: http://kyrani99.wordpress.com/2012/01/26/toxic-people-and-their-networks-who-are-they-part-2/
Kyrani Eade