Do you get jealous about your BF watching porn?

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  • Sarah Cooper - 6 years ago

    I totally agree with the ladies comments on here. I hate porn ! My bf says he doesn't look at it but I've found magazines and DVDs..even newspaper cuttings.. So he's lying to me too.
    Why does he need it when we have a great sex life? We don't live together but we meet up often and always have sex. Can't he just wait a couple of days for heavens sake ! He's not 20..he's 55 !!! It makes me feel differently about him. It shows no respect for me it our love. If you love someone you don't get off looking at porn pictures ! Men are visual ? BS..just an excuse to be weak. What about loyalty? If anything it puts me off having sex with him. I feel betrayed. Its cheating whatever way men try to sugar coat it. Just wrong.

  • Anotherguy - 6 years ago

    Sorry to break it to you girls but those of you posting on here want a boy scout prude bf. I'm dealing with a fiance that is like this.

    The psychology of this is that there is lust and there is love. Two different emotions. If a guy lusts after you it will be shortlived. If he loves you then it will last.

    I suggest you watch it with him, otherwise he will watch it behind your back like I do with my fiance. Even when I masturbate I think about previous girls I have been with. I am not sorry about this either. Some people have an insatiable sexual appetite, and I am one of them. Luckily, it's easy for us guys to control you weak minded women bc if not then none of you would tolerate what you're going through.

    Gotta take the good with the bad ladies. Toughen up cupcakes.

  • Lea Chapman - 7 years ago

    Im stuck in the middle of it.. I had a feeling my boyfriend/baby daddy was watching porn or doing something because he would take 3 hours to shit and then when I was wondering what was taking so long as soon as I would go back there THEN he would turn on the water and get in. So I peeked under the bathroom door one time and seen him looking at his phone with his hand moving and such. My stomach sunk but I had a numb feeling to it. I tell him not to delete his history and when I go through the videos of porn while he's not looking I start to cry because my body is not like that. Idk. But when he asks me if he can watch it I say yes because hes asking me right? Hes telling me he wants to.. so I know he wants to look at other girls because well they all lie and say "he's thinking of you" but how can he be thinking of you when thats not your vagina hes getting turned on to? your boobs? your moans or face? and then when he sees you in person your shit dont look like that?... Hes always had problems staying up with me and he says its been like that with every girl hes been with but idk if its true or the porn has caused it... please help

  • Erminda - 8 years ago

    It honestly hurts me to think of my boyfriend jacking off to other women.... It makes me feel worthless :'c

  • Maddi - 8 years ago

    You are all in for a rude awakenings if you don't think they are comparing you to the sexy hot babes and they can jerkoff to the screen no problem but when they are with you they can't seem to stay hard bullshit they are not thinking of them instead of you they look at them and wish you looked that way.

  • Danielle - 8 years ago

    I think its bullshit women are being told to basically suck it up and deal with it. Not porn is not ok. It objectifies women and sex and gives false realities and expectations in the bedroom. I think its disgusting if you want to watch someone else get rodgered then why dont you choose somebody else to be with. Women you do not I repeat YOU DO NOT have to compromise your feelings over this. There are other men out there that dont watch porn and do deserve you in all your purest form. NEVER be told to just let him do it and change your mind. He should be worshipping you and watching you both together not some other plastic filled fake bitch. You can do better than to lower you level of morals ladies you are worth so so much more xx

  • cindy - 9 years ago

    I have the same issue. I've told him many times to stop. And all he says is " I'm trying but i will fuck up once in a while" it sounds like B.S to me. Porn makes me feel bad about myself. I've told him how it makes me feel. I feel like i have to look through his phone just to make sure he didn't. Its like if he sees a actress on Netflix or hulu. He will look them up and see if he can find a nude picture of them. Even worse and embarrassing is when he plays his video game's he will look up the character and find nudes. Its disgusting! I told him that if he doesn't stop that i don't want to be in a relationship. Why would i stay with someone that makes me upset and lies to me? This has been going on for 3 months now. when he was living on his own it wasn't a big deal but now? Come on you have a GF at home. I'm willing to give it up when ever, but i feel like porn is crushing everything.

  • Christine - 9 years ago

    It sucks having to be labeled the bad guy in this situation. A bad habit is a bad habit no matter what it is. If a man really loves his wife, fiancee or girlfriend? He should be willing to stop just for her if he really truly loves her the way hesays he does. Dont label the the female the "bad guy" in this situation because thats unfair to us and anyone that thinks the same way too.

  • Christine - 9 years ago

    My fiancee does the same thing and i hate he even tried to compare me to the girls on there. I wish he would just grow up and stop because this isnt going to be a happy marriage

  • Kathy - 9 years ago

    Why in the world should I be ok with my boyfriend getting off to someone else pussy! And why does society make me feel like the bad guy and I should just deal with it because every guy does it. Before the internet he'd probably be jerkiing off to sex with us and I wouldn't have to go through 15 minutes monthly of the same pain of having a baby yo shave my vagina.

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