I'm a 73 year-old ex-engineer and veteran family-systems therapist who invites Website visitors to evaluate and stop a toxic cycle of [psychological wounds + unawareness] that silently stresses their families, descendents, relationships, and our society. I seek no financial gain from this effort - it is my life mission.
If you aren't problem-solving, you're probably arguing, fighting, manipulating, blaming, apologizing, avoiding, stonewalling, numbing out, changing the subject, focusing on the past or the future, whining, complaining, playing "yes but...", explaining, intellectualizing, joking, or pretending. NONE of these produces effective communication!
See http://sfhelp.org/cx/guide1.htm for non-profit options.
If you aren't problem-solving, you're probably arguing, fighting, manipulating, blaming, apologizing, avoiding, stonewalling, numbing out, changing the subject, focusing on the past or the future, whining, complaining, playing "yes but...", explaining, intellectualizing, joking, or pretending. NONE of these produces effective communication!
See http://sfhelp.org/cx/guide1.htm for non-profit options.