This is true, also with urgencies rushing through your veins excited to finally see each other a lot of lust happens, then if the person lied about themselves completely it wouldn't happen because of disappointment. Relationships are better when you can test the water before taking the whole drink. People can say what they want to say but if they prove what they have said and keep their word and enjoy each other then it was a plan waiting to happen. My husband and I have started with the sex the first date and we have been together for 2 years and happily married for 6.
Charles - 9 years ago
I have had sex on the first date more than once, however I must state that partly that is because often especially with people met online, I spent a long time talking to them before a date ever occurred. I believe with many of the app/internet based dating this dynamic can be skewed by the ability to spend hours chatting via text and IM long before a face to face date occurs.
This is true, also with urgencies rushing through your veins excited to finally see each other a lot of lust happens, then if the person lied about themselves completely it wouldn't happen because of disappointment. Relationships are better when you can test the water before taking the whole drink. People can say what they want to say but if they prove what they have said and keep their word and enjoy each other then it was a plan waiting to happen. My husband and I have started with the sex the first date and we have been together for 2 years and happily married for 6.
I have had sex on the first date more than once, however I must state that partly that is because often especially with people met online, I spent a long time talking to them before a date ever occurred. I believe with many of the app/internet based dating this dynamic can be skewed by the ability to spend hours chatting via text and IM long before a face to face date occurs.