Dave, my belief is that the answer is simple, and you have already answered it yourself. You obviously believe in ethics and teach that to kids daily. You are also an advocate of appropriate use of technology. Technology is a tool to you and your family, and certain tools are better used in certain situations. Although you may feel hipocritical, you clearly aren't. Which guides your life - your family or your website? Which holds more importance to you? It's not easy to clarify this for a determined 12 1/2 year old, but you already know the "right" answer for you.
Dave, my belief is that the answer is simple, and you have already answered it yourself. You obviously believe in ethics and teach that to kids daily. You are also an advocate of appropriate use of technology. Technology is a tool to you and your family, and certain tools are better used in certain situations. Although you may feel hipocritical, you clearly aren't. Which guides your life - your family or your website? Which holds more importance to you? It's not easy to clarify this for a determined 12 1/2 year old, but you already know the "right" answer for you.