If you do it, the key is never to say anything about it to the other person. They can never find out. Back in the day, the morning after an "interlude", I might take the young lady to breakfast, if things went well. If not, it was straight up Fruity Pebbles. Now, this wasn't something I was aware I was doing - I was just in a good mood; still, she was none too impressed with the idea of being rewarded for great performance. Soon enough, it got weird: "How was that?" "Was that worthy of brunch?" "That wasn't worth Cocoa Puffs". This was all in fun, but there was that passive-aggressive shit in there, cause she kept doing it; it was in her head that I was judging her performance. Finally, I said "Fine, you decide if we go out for breakfast the next day". Anyway, that's over, and I can no longer stand Fruity Pebbles.
No, unless by snacks you mean blow jobs...
If you do it, the key is never to say anything about it to the other person. They can never find out. Back in the day, the morning after an "interlude", I might take the young lady to breakfast, if things went well. If not, it was straight up Fruity Pebbles. Now, this wasn't something I was aware I was doing - I was just in a good mood; still, she was none too impressed with the idea of being rewarded for great performance. Soon enough, it got weird: "How was that?" "Was that worthy of brunch?" "That wasn't worth Cocoa Puffs". This was all in fun, but there was that passive-aggressive shit in there, cause she kept doing it; it was in her head that I was judging her performance. Finally, I said "Fine, you decide if we go out for breakfast the next day". Anyway, that's over, and I can no longer stand Fruity Pebbles.