I have created a blog with information and journals regarding domestic abuse. I hope that it will bring information and comfort to those seeking help or respite.

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Can Abusers Change?

Posted 9 years.


  • Jared - 6 years ago

    This is an excellent question. I would say that almost any abuser can change if he truly wants to. Of course, many abusers, despite any periodically hopeful appearances, are simply not willing to do whatever it takes to change and to come to respect the people they hurt and harm. They truly are selfish human beings, many of whom refuse both to allow themselves to think that what they are doing is actually evil and to allow themselves to become vulnerable enough to thoroughly reveal their own inner hurts and be healed and transformed by love.

  • Autumn - 8 years ago

    Well, my "rational" mind -- what's left of it, anyway -- knows it's irrational to assume an abuser cannot change. The person would literally have to be without conscience (aka a sociopath), and even they're not all hopeless.

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