Disagree. You have not made a mistake in the larger picture, he did for being deceitful. Generally, and speaking from experience, I say do not regret anything, because all it does is keep you stuck exerting negative energy on something you can't change. Do what makes you feel alive and don't let sexist customs that we have grown so use to, tell you that when women have consensual sex it needs to be linked with love, and that if it's not, you have "made a mistake". Feelings are feelings and you are allowed to be hurt, but think hard about what you're hurt about and do not let this make you question your own character. That being said, use protection. ❤️
lex - 8 years ago
Disagree. You have not made a mistake in the larger picture, he did for being deceitful. Generally, and speaking from experience, I say do not regret anything, because all it does is keep you stuck exerting negative energy on something you can't change. Do what makes you feel alive and don't let sexist customs that we have grown so use to, tell you that when women have sex it needs to be linked with love, and that if you don't, you have "made a mistake". Feelings are feelings and you are allowed to be hurt, but think hard about what you're hurt about and do not let this make you question your own character. That being said, use protection. ❤️
Sandy - 12 years ago
Heather, shouldn't you mention something about how lucky this girl is that she didn't get pregnant? And that it's really important to be protected from pregnancy and STDs next time?
Disagree. You have not made a mistake in the larger picture, he did for being deceitful. Generally, and speaking from experience, I say do not regret anything, because all it does is keep you stuck exerting negative energy on something you can't change. Do what makes you feel alive and don't let sexist customs that we have grown so use to, tell you that when women have consensual sex it needs to be linked with love, and that if it's not, you have "made a mistake". Feelings are feelings and you are allowed to be hurt, but think hard about what you're hurt about and do not let this make you question your own character. That being said, use protection. ❤️
Disagree. You have not made a mistake in the larger picture, he did for being deceitful. Generally, and speaking from experience, I say do not regret anything, because all it does is keep you stuck exerting negative energy on something you can't change. Do what makes you feel alive and don't let sexist customs that we have grown so use to, tell you that when women have sex it needs to be linked with love, and that if you don't, you have "made a mistake". Feelings are feelings and you are allowed to be hurt, but think hard about what you're hurt about and do not let this make you question your own character. That being said, use protection. ❤️
Heather, shouldn't you mention something about how lucky this girl is that she didn't get pregnant? And that it's really important to be protected from pregnancy and STDs next time?