Biggest thing for me has got to be enthusiasm. I understand that some girls don't find dick to be all that appetizing. But for the love of god if you're gonna put it in you mouth, at least act like you really REALLY enjoy it being there. Anything technique-wise can be adjusted and not really ruin the BJ but nothing kills a boner like a bored/blank/preoccupied expression. I was never able to come from BJ's until I got with my current girlfriend and then I realized what it was she does different, she enjoys sucking my dick.
Mandee - 11 years ago
The more drool, the better it is. I've gone down on him and drooled so much that it was extremely messy, but it made it super easy to jump right on and start having sex.
hLover - 11 years ago
It’s Sexy. Really Sexy.
wEater - 11 years ago
Oh god, it always surprise me(f) when the spit from deep throating comes out, but I have to agree that the guy I've been sexually involved with definitely likes it, which in turn just makes me feel more turned on..Hot!
foug - 11 years ago
Totally agree! Slobbery is hot as hell. Especially that really viscous spit in the back of the throat from deepthroating. Sex is a messy business, embrace it.
JohnnyJ - 11 years ago
I would say trying to be to neat about it. Don't be afraid to get a little messy with the drool. Not only is it hot and makes it feel more like you're really enjoying yourself, but the extra lubrication for hand action at the base and balls is an added bonus.
Jesse - 11 years ago
The absolute best is when my girl slows down significantly once I'm crossing the threshold of "no return," and slathers her flat, wet tongue up/down/back/forth all over the underside of the top 1.5-2" of my cock (with at least that amount of it in your mouth as well, lips locked gently around the whole thing), and keep your hand around the shaft at the same time.
Going too fast/hard as I'm coming forces me through the orgasm way too fast.
Conversely, I do something really similar when I'm eating a girl out and she starts to cum. Have had nothing but rave reviews.
dfedhli - 11 years ago
DEFINITELY have to say stopping right before an orgasm! I think that the female orgasm must work differently (otherwise these women are just being totally inconsiderate), but in the male orgasm there's a point a few second before orgasm where once crossed the orgasm will happen no matter what, but the quality of the orgasm depends almost entirely on what happens after this point. By building up and giving a good blowjob, you raise the ceiling for the quality of the orgasm, but if you were to stop after this point, the orgasm will be very mediocre and fizzling. This is particularly why swallowing is so important, because if you stop and switch to a handjob, the orgasm is only slightly better than if the entire thing had been a handjob, and if you stop sucking but keep your mouth on it the lack of stimulation also worsens the orgasm considerably.
AVita - 11 years ago
Hi Haven,
I'm hijacking your poll to ask something I've wondered for a while:
I have a pretty typical gag reflex and can't deep-throat a monster cock or 45 minutes like girls in porn, but I do try to get all of it at least some of the time. What I wanted to know is, what's the best place for me to be on the cock when he cums? Should I be focusing down on just the head when he cums? Should I be somewhere in the middle?
I usually try to get as far down as I can (to the point where I can tongue his balls with his cock in my throat) when I feel him start to cum, but I always wonder if I should just focus on the head instead?
Biggest thing for me has got to be enthusiasm. I understand that some girls don't find dick to be all that appetizing. But for the love of god if you're gonna put it in you mouth, at least act like you really REALLY enjoy it being there. Anything technique-wise can be adjusted and not really ruin the BJ but nothing kills a boner like a bored/blank/preoccupied expression. I was never able to come from BJ's until I got with my current girlfriend and then I realized what it was she does different, she enjoys sucking my dick.
The more drool, the better it is. I've gone down on him and drooled so much that it was extremely messy, but it made it super easy to jump right on and start having sex.
It’s Sexy. Really Sexy.
Oh god, it always surprise me(f) when the spit from deep throating comes out, but I have to agree that the guy I've been sexually involved with definitely likes it, which in turn just makes me feel more turned on..Hot!
Totally agree! Slobbery is hot as hell. Especially that really viscous spit in the back of the throat from deepthroating. Sex is a messy business, embrace it.
I would say trying to be to neat about it. Don't be afraid to get a little messy with the drool. Not only is it hot and makes it feel more like you're really enjoying yourself, but the extra lubrication for hand action at the base and balls is an added bonus.
The absolute best is when my girl slows down significantly once I'm crossing the threshold of "no return," and slathers her flat, wet tongue up/down/back/forth all over the underside of the top 1.5-2" of my cock (with at least that amount of it in your mouth as well, lips locked gently around the whole thing), and keep your hand around the shaft at the same time.
Going too fast/hard as I'm coming forces me through the orgasm way too fast.
Conversely, I do something really similar when I'm eating a girl out and she starts to cum. Have had nothing but rave reviews.
DEFINITELY have to say stopping right before an orgasm! I think that the female orgasm must work differently (otherwise these women are just being totally inconsiderate), but in the male orgasm there's a point a few second before orgasm where once crossed the orgasm will happen no matter what, but the quality of the orgasm depends almost entirely on what happens after this point. By building up and giving a good blowjob, you raise the ceiling for the quality of the orgasm, but if you were to stop after this point, the orgasm will be very mediocre and fizzling. This is particularly why swallowing is so important, because if you stop and switch to a handjob, the orgasm is only slightly better than if the entire thing had been a handjob, and if you stop sucking but keep your mouth on it the lack of stimulation also worsens the orgasm considerably.
Hi Haven,
I'm hijacking your poll to ask something I've wondered for a while:
I have a pretty typical gag reflex and can't deep-throat a monster cock or 45 minutes like girls in porn, but I do try to get all of it at least some of the time. What I wanted to know is, what's the best place for me to be on the cock when he cums? Should I be focusing down on just the head when he cums? Should I be somewhere in the middle?
I usually try to get as far down as I can (to the point where I can tongue his balls with his cock in my throat) when I feel him start to cum, but I always wonder if I should just focus on the head instead?
this is true for men going down on women too!