Hi, I've been a lurker for a while now. I'm trying to honestly understand incel better so I was hoping you could help me out a little. Apart from the intimacy (sex, kissing, cuddling etc) that comes with having a girlfriend, how is your day-to-day life affected by incel? (eg, sexual frustration becomes so great that you cannot concentrate on work?) Oh and what do you think women should do? I think in one of your previous posts, you mentioned that they need give guys a chance before prejudging them on looks. But what if a girl truly spends time chatting with an incel guy, but honestly feels no attraction to him so turns the guy down when he asks her out? Thank you for your help!