I tend to agree with the 5 comments above. There's something bothering me about the urgency with this visa thing. Though I don't know a lot about visas, it would seem she could get another one eventually and you could visit her since you are able to travel. You write that you would be ready to marry in a couple of years, so why not wait? If it's meant to be, it will happen when the time is right: when it feels right for both of you. Best wishes!
First I commend you on your courage to admit your feelings and open yourself up in this way. I agree with those that have gone before, marriage should be a life long commitment and if you're not one hundred percent sure, then it's not the right timing. When it's right you will know it with every fiber of your being. Trust your heart.
Brenda - 10 years ago
You two aren't on the same page. There is certainly nothing wrong with how you are feeling. Those are your feelings and they can't be wrong or right. In life remember that we all are living our "what-ifs" Make a decision and believe that it's the best decision for you. Best of luck.
Tania Castro - 10 years ago
You have many questions about marriage. I think the wedding should take place only if both (the engaged couple) have no doubt about this commitment.
Anytime there's pressure to get married for any reason, it isn't right. Live your life, take your risks, and the right person will come along. When they do you'll know it and won't have question anything!
I tend to agree with the 5 comments above. There's something bothering me about the urgency with this visa thing. Though I don't know a lot about visas, it would seem she could get another one eventually and you could visit her since you are able to travel. You write that you would be ready to marry in a couple of years, so why not wait? If it's meant to be, it will happen when the time is right: when it feels right for both of you. Best wishes!
First I commend you on your courage to admit your feelings and open yourself up in this way. I agree with those that have gone before, marriage should be a life long commitment and if you're not one hundred percent sure, then it's not the right timing. When it's right you will know it with every fiber of your being. Trust your heart.
You two aren't on the same page. There is certainly nothing wrong with how you are feeling. Those are your feelings and they can't be wrong or right. In life remember that we all are living our "what-ifs" Make a decision and believe that it's the best decision for you. Best of luck.
You have many questions about marriage. I think the wedding should take place only if both (the engaged couple) have no doubt about this commitment.
Anytime there's pressure to get married for any reason, it isn't right. Live your life, take your risks, and the right person will come along. When they do you'll know it and won't have question anything!
Any time a person even questions whether they should marry, they probably should not. Marriage is for the certain, not the questioning.